“I have your back, Grandma”
“Yes, you have tact. Always have – ever since you were a little boy.”
“Grandma, listen, I’ll take care of you.”
“You? What can you do? Oh, goodness, no Jason. I’m fine and can manage quite nicely. Did I tell you I went strawberry picking last weekend?”
“Yes you did, but I wanted you to know that I’ll be there for you.”
Grandma walked over to the kitchen counter and Jason watched as she re-arranged some tomatoes in a bowl with one hand and quietly wiped her eye with the other.
“Love you Grandma.”
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I wrote this story in response to August 12, 2015 Carrot Ranch Flash Fiction Challenge: In 99 words (no more, no less) write a story about a character who is called to have the back of another.
I believe that we could all use a personal advocate who will speak for us at different times in our lives. Someone who understands us, listens to our concerns and makes sure our voice is heard by the professionals. Someone whose focus is solely on us to secure the quality of care we seek.
In my story, I used the example of a single elderly woman who is alone. She deflects conversations to hide her fears about the future – the same fear I’ve noticed in the eyes of many elderly. It’s the fear of losing control of their lives, of not being able to find someone trustworthy to help them manage all the pieces when they are least able to.
Stepping up and being a personal advocate for someone is something we do from compassion, from love. It is not an easy job, but what I know is that while I was the personal advocate for my father-in-law, his gratitude was straight from his heart – deep and lasting. It made all my time and effort worthwhile.
This is an important message and a lovely story. It reminds be of a beautiful Robert Munsch picture book “Love you forever”. I’m not sure if you know it. http://robertmunsch.com/book/love-you-forever
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I was not familiar with Robert Munsch’s book. I love how his simple message, is being shared by so many. Thank you Norah.
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Including you! 🙂
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What a beautiful tender story. Yes, such advocacy comes from the heart and I believe that the advocate and the one supported both benefit from the strong and loving relationship it creates.
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Thank you Charli. Your prompt touched home for me – it’s a subject close to both our hearts these days – just in different ways.
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In one way or another we are in need of having someone’s back, or having someone who has ours.
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Aw. Sweet. My grandmother is actually visiting now. This reminds me of her. “Oh, I’m managing just fine on my own, thank you.” But it means a lot to hear the words anyway. 🙂
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It sounds like you have a strong, loving family unit Sarah. And I agree that even if things are ‘understood’, words of reassurance are nice to hear. Thanks Sarah! 🙂
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That is an amazing story for its crystal clear message in so few words. And I have the feeling you are an amazing person to have near.
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Ahhh, now I’m blushing. Thank you Dora!
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